It’s widely believed that summer is the most popular season for tying the knot. Though if recent studies are anything to go by, fall is finally starting to make its case. Cue the perturbation.
But what if we told you that watching couples commit in cooler climes was actually a good thing? Not only will it be easier to get the day off work, your outfit options improve tenfold, and so does your comfort. With no more worries about sweating in your suit or debating whether shorts are acceptable, getting ceremony-ready is a breeze.
To help, we’ve teamed up with Jos. A. Bank to pull together the best fall wedding guest outfit guide. Keep reading and find everything you need to know about dress codes, outfits, accessories, and more.
Understanding Fall Wedding Dress Codes
The first step to successfully dressing for any wedding is understanding the dress code. Easy if it’s on the invitation, not so simple if there hasn’t been even a whisper. For fall weddings, you’ll need to consider not just the season but also the formality, location, and those often overlooked clues hidden in the invitation itself.
Here’s how to crack the code:
Formal vs. Casual: Understanding the Difference
Does the bride and groom want you to be formal, semi-formal, or casual? Formal usually means black tie or at least cocktail attire—think sharp suits, ties, and polished shoes—while semi-smart gives you a bit more leeway: A suit without a tie or a smart blazer with tailored trousers can do the trick.
Casual, on the other hand, certainly doesn’t mean jeans and a T-shirt. You’ll still need to look put together—a smart shirt, chinos, and loafers—but the rules are a lot more relaxed. For this dress code specifically, always err on the side of caution; it’s better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.
Invitation Clues: Decoding the Dress Code
Even if the invitation doesn’t outright state the dress code, don’t give up. There are sometimes subtle hints that can guide you. For example a fancy, embossed invitation with gold script usually signals a formal affair, while a more casual, playful design could hint at a relaxed dress code. Pay attention to the time of day as well—an evening event tends to be more formal than a daytime celebration.
Location-Based Tips: Indoor vs. Outdoor Weddings
Location can greatly influence what you wear. For indoor weddings, especially in a grand venue, a more formal look is usually appropriate. But if the wedding’s set in a rustic barn or a beautiful garden, you might want to consider the elements—like the temperature and terrain.
For outdoor fall weddings, layering is your best friend. This method won’t just keep you warm, but should you get a little hot on the dance floor, you can easily slip off your jacket or waistcoat. Finally, don’t forget to check if the ceremony is on grass; this might be a good time to swap your leather-soled shoes for something with a bit more grip.
Outfit Ideas for Each Dress Code
Once you have a better idea of what’s expected from you, sartorially speaking, the fun can start in creating your looks. Whether you’re heading to a formal black-tie affair or a laid-back outdoor celebration, Jos. A. Bank has plenty of options to help you look your best.
Formal Fall Wedding Outfits
For a formal fall wedding, think sophistication and sharp lines. A well-tailored suit in a deep, autumnal hue like navy or charcoal can make a strong statement. And if the invitation calls for black-tie, a classic tuxedo is your best bet.
Pair your tailoring with a white dress shirt, a tie or bow tie, and polished shoes, and consider adding a pocket square or a subtle boutonniere to give your look that extra touch of elegance. With the cooler weather, you can also experiment with textured fabrics like velvet or wool blends, which not only look luxurious but also keep you warm.
Semi-Formal Attire
Semi-formal ceremonies give you the opportunity to balance style with a bit more comfort. A dark suit or blazer is a safe and stylish choice—think deep grays, forest greens, or classic black—with a crisp dress shirt, slacks or chinos, and brogues.
Casual Yet Stylish Options
If the bride and groom are allowing you to let loose, it’s a great chance to get creative while still looking presentable. We suggest starting with a pair of chinos, in a fall-friendly color, and teaming them with a crew neck T-shirt, blazer, and smart sneakers. You might want to think about adding a cardigan to the mix if it’s particularly chilly.
Best Colors and Fabrics for Fall
Dressing for the season usually means you mimic the colors and materials of your surroundings. In summer, for example, you will tend to pick paler hues, airy fabrics, and looser cuts. Opt for this method in the fall too.
Seasonal Color Palette
As the leaves turn and the air grows crisp, embrace a richer, deeper color palette that reflects the changing landscape. Burgundy, navy, forest green, and earthy browns are quintessential autumn shades that evoke the warmth and coziness of the season. These colors not only resonate with the natural surroundings but also exude a sense of sophistication and depth.
Whether it’s a burgundy polo shirt paired with a navy blazer or a forest green sweater layered under a tweed jacket, these tones are versatile and timeless, ensuring you stand out while also blending seamlessly with the season.
Fabric Recommendations
No matter the season, choosing the right fabrics is crucial. For fall, thicker fabrics such as wool and tweed are great options for keeping you warm, while cotton is ever-reliable. It’s always a good idea to check the weather forecast for the day of the wedding, as well as finding out if you’ll be mostly outside or inside.
Layering
Mastering the art of layering is essential for navigating the fluctuating temperatures of fall without sacrificing style. As a rule of thumb, start with a lightweight, breathable base layer, such as a cotton dress shirt, which helps regulate body temperature. Next, add a mid-layer like a cardigan or a knitted sweater for insulation. Finally, top it off with a structured outer layer, such as a sports coat or blazer, to shield against the chill.
The key to effective layering is balancing thickness and texture, ensuring that each layer complements the next without adding unnecessary bulk. By mixing materials and playing with lengths, you can create a dynamic, visually interesting outfit that is both functional and stylish.
Statement Pieces
If the dress code allows it, fall is the perfect season to incorporate bold statement pieces that reflect the season’s rich tapestry. A plaid suit, for instance, is a quintessential autumnal choice that marries tradition with contemporary flair. The classic pattern adds a sense of depth and interest to your ensemble, making it a standout option for your next wedding.
In addition to plaid, consider integrating other patterns like houndstooth, herringbone, or even subtle checks into your outfits. These patterns, when used thoughtfully, can elevate your look, adding personality and style without overwhelming it. Whether it’s a statement blazer, a patterned scarf, or a boldly designed shirt, these pieces allow you to express individuality while staying seasonally appropriate.
Choosing the Right Accessories
Accessories can make or break an outfit, so it’s key you make the correct choices; especially when it comes to weddings in fall. The post-spring season is rather unpredictable in terms of the weather, therefore the right accessories can enhance not only your look, but your comfort too.
From adding warmth to providing a pop of color, accessories like scarves, ties, and pocket squares can bring cohesion and personality to your ensemble. They allow you to express your individual style while also paying homage to the tones and textures of the season.
Ties and Pocket Squares
Don’t be afraid to experiment with richer patterns and textures in your ties and pocket square—fall is the perfect time to do so. Think of fabrics like wool and silk that will add a tactile dimension to your look and consider deeper colors like burgundy, forest green, or mustard yellow, which harmonize beautifully with fall’s palette.
Footwear Options
Fall is rather fickle, so it’s important to tread carefully when making a decision on footwear. Get it wrong and you’ll be in no fit state to shuffle across the dance floor.
For a formal wedding, classic leather oxford shoes in black or dark brown are always a winner, while a semi-formal ceremony calls for something slightly more casual such as a pair of brogues or loafers. If you opt for sneakers, make sure the dress code allows it and that the soles have enough grip to tackle potentially slippery surfaces or uneven terrain.
Outerwear for Fall Weddings
Outerwear becomes a critical consideration for fall weddings, where the weather can be chilly or unpredictable. Investing in something stylish and functional is non-negotiable; the only thing you have to think about is the type of coat or jacket you choose to complement your outfit.
A tailored wool overcoat is often the most popular choice, providing both warmth and a sleek, sophisticated appearance. It can also be easily slipped on over the top of your suit. If the wedding is less formal, or the weather a little more mild, a quilted jacket offers a lighter, slightly more casual option.
Tips for Staying Comfortable in Fall Weather
The frosty windows and vibrant autumn colors may create a beautiful backdrop for the wedding photos, but the cooler temperatures mean it’s especially important to dress appropriately for the day’s events.
From fluctuating temperatures to the possibility of rain or wind, it’s essential to choose your outfit and accessories with both style and practicality in mind.
Dealing with Temperature Changes
Fall weather does what it wants, with temperatures often varying greatly between the ceremony and reception, especially if parts of the event are outdoors. To stay comfortable, your best bet is to embrace the art of layering.
As we’ve already touched upon, start with a breathable base layer; we suggest Jos. A. Bank’s Coolmax dress shirt that wicks away moisture and provides insulation without overheating. Next, add a mid-layer, like a light sweater or vest, and finish with a suit jacket or blazer that can be put on and taken off throughout the day.
Weather-Proofing Your Outfit
Rain or wind is inevitable at some point during the fall, so weather-proofing your wedding outfit is uber-important. To do so, find yourself a water-resistant jacket or coat that’ll protect your attire from any sudden showers. You may also want to invest in a compact umbrella that complements your outfit and can be easily stowed away.
For footwear, choose leather shoes and treat them with a water-repellent spray to keep your feet dry. And if the wind is a concern, a scarf can add both warmth and a touch of flair.
Choosing Breathable Fabrics
Even in the fall, indoor venues or packed receptions can quickly get warm, so choosing breathable fabrics is the key to staying comfortable. Look for suits and shirts made from natural fibers like wool or cotton that allow air to circulate, helping to regulate your body temperature. Avoid synthetic materials that can trap heat and moisture, leading to discomfort as the day progresses.
Grooming and Final Touches
When getting ready for a wedding, your outfit is only part of the equation; grooming and finishing touches are what truly complete your look. A well-groomed appearance not only complements your attire but also ensures you feel confident and put-together for the big day.
Paying attention to details like your hair, beard, and accessories can elevate your overall style, making you stand out in the best possible way. As you prepare for the occasion, remember that these finishing touches are what will really set you apart.
Grooming Essentials
A refined appearance starts with impeccable grooming, especially when attending a fall wedding. For your hair, it’s a good idea to opt for a fresh cut a few days before the event to ensure it looks sharp but has had time to settle naturally. Use a styling product that offers hold without making your hair look too stiff or greasy—think matte pomades or light gels.
If you have a beard, it should be well-trimmed and conditioned; use a quality beard oil to soften the hair and keep it looking neat. For those that are clean shaven, ensure a close, irritation-free shave on the day of the wedding, or the night before if you want a hint of stubble.
Finishing Touches
The right accessories can make all the difference to your wedding attire. Apart from the obvious ones like a tie and pocket square, a classic watch is not only functional but also a statement piece that complements your overall look. Choose one with a leather strap in a rich tone like brown or black, or opt for a metal bracelet if you’re going for a more formal appearance.
Cufflinks, worn with a French cuff shirt, are another opportunity to express your style subtly—whether you choose a traditional pair or something with a bit of character, they should always harmonize with your suit and tie.